I am writing about this because I thought this was ample opportunity to share my experience on something that seems so small from the other side.
I had just turned out the drive on my way to the dentist for my routine cleaning when I spotted a woman in a Prius who had slid between our pasture gate and began opening it from the inside. I looked down at the clock and of course I had only enough time to drive straight to the dentist in order to make it to my appointment on time. I pulled over, turned off my car, and walked toward her. She was still fiddling with the gate, briefly looked at me and continued with what she was doing. My first thought was, she doesn't look like PG&E, she isn't our inspector as we know them by face, and she is not unloading cattle in those clothes (it also could have been the parasol in her hands that tipped me off). My heart sinks. Great. Another trespasser. I don't like confronting them just as much as they don't like to be confronted. It's uncomfortable to catch someone red handed who is violating your privacy. I yelled out to her and asked if she knew our family. She looked at me confused and said, 'where?' And she went back to opening the gate.
I responded in shock, 'this is private property, you can't. You can't drive your car in this field. Can you please leave.'
She kept her head down and then struggled to close it. After a long awkward silence of watching her try to figure out how to then shut the gate, my blood was boiling. I figured for the future of everyone's safety I should explain to her our side of this concerning matter. It is after all a part of my responsibility as being a farmer to help educate others about our industry.
As the farmer/rancher it's not that we are being selfish in trying to keep this beautiful countryside gem to ourselves. Believe me, if everyone could see the things we call normal in this house, our world would be a more peaceful and a more respectfully understood place. It would be a dream to open our doors with welcome arms but we never know what someone may act upon. Not everyone does what we do because it's...not for the faint of heart. It's real, serious, un-sugarcoated, at the mercy of mother nature, life.
*Fun fact-farming and ranching falls into the top ten of the most dangerous jobs in the US.*
Now our cows look peaceful, happy, and friendly, and sometimes I even find myself day dreaming about what it would be like to just lay with them in the field and de-stress to the sounds of them munching away at their cud. POP! What a romanticized version. Unless you too are a female cow.
Usually where there is a cow, there is a bull. Especially when you see animals that are grazing on remote pastures. It's because those girls are either Dry (the 60 day period a cow gets to vacation before she freshens/gives birth) or they are pregnant heifers (a cow that has not ever freshened but is pregnant and working her way to the milk barn soon). We run a bull with these girls in case they have an aborted pregnancy (miscarriage in human terms). He steps in with all his glory and rebreeds her at her next heat. Letting us the farmers sleep better at night knowing that our girls are being looked after.
Bulls are huge, testosterone filled, bossy, rude, and unpredictable creatures. Our bulls have been known to run after people on a 4 wheeler, run at our poor PG&E crew member who luckily had their passenger window open, and just in the nick of time flew into his truck while the bull ran into the bumper head first. That same bull also felt in necessary to show us who was boss as we were driving our small ranch truck away from the herd and out of nowhere he came running at us full speed and hit our tail light and bumper. I have experienced this. I will NEVER approach that bull on foot or in vehicle.
The field that she is trying to enter is the home to this very bull. I did not share that with her because I didn't want to scare her away but rather share her away.
I continued to explain that another aspect of trespassing is that gates do not get closed properly. Cows are smart, they will lick and nudge that chain to open that gate so they can graze on untouched grass. We are located on a rural road so people tend to drive fast. It's our loss and liability if the gate is open and the girls run out onto the road where a speedy driver hits the girl. Heart breaking.All just because someone took it upon themselves to enter our property for a photo opportunity. It just doesn't seem worth it.
Dear Trespasser,
I hope that I was able to share with you the other side of trespassing. I hope that I was able to gently explain and help you understand the dangers that accompany doing what you clearly knew you shouldn't have judging by blush of guilt on your cheeks. It's not for my sake, it truly is for yours and our animals safety.
I asked her if she was familiar with the area and she said she was. So I proceeded to remind her of the park that is just down the road from us. It is equally as beautiful and definitely more welcoming to people.
I walked away thinking, 'Thank goodness Travis wasn't the one who found her. This would not have been such a pleasant experience for her.'
....and I made it to the dentist a few minutes late. I swear I can't make it anywhere on time anymore.
~ Annika U